Thrive with Four Kingdom Values

Pastor Carlos said he didn’t have the spiritual gift of church board meetings!


by Dan Busby and John Pearson


The place God calls you to is the place where
your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet.[1]

Frederick Buechner


A pastor friend, “Carlos,” once told me, “I don’t have the spiritual gift of church board meetings.”

He expressed what many pastors feel. This minister put his cards on the table. Other pastors bottle up their frustrations—because they don’t have safe places to share their angst.

No, we’re not nominating Carlos for the Church Board Member Hall of Fame. It’s actually reserved for lay members, not clergy. But in this lesson, we’d like to inspire you to discern the criteria for nominees to our fictitious Church Board Member Hall of Fame.

We’re guessing that Carlos did not thrive at church board meetings because one or more of these dysfunctions were present:

  • Board members with inadequate training for their board responsibilities
  • Board members with ill-suited gifts for the primary role of governance
  • Board members with fuzzy understandings of board/staff roles
  • Board members with personal agendas—and an inability to discern God’s agenda
  • Board members with limited theological acumen
  • Board members with unhealthy character issues and insufficient grace

No church board is perfect, but the best boards set a high standard for board service. When the right people—with the right motives and God-honoring character—serve graciously together, there will be a minimum amount of dysfunction and a maximum amount of spiritual fruit and impact. Board members and pastors will thrive in board meetings as the Holy Spirit deploys their spiritual gifts and their God-designed personalities and strengths.

So what would that look like in your church boardroom? We believe that a nominee to the Church Board Member Hall of Fame would demonstrate these Kingdom values:

  1. DISCERNMENT: Calling and Passion. Look around your board table. Would every person affirm that God has called them to board service? John Pellowe writes, “The Holy Spirit can nudge us towards those good works that God has prepared for us to do (Ephesians 2:10); this nudging is usually described as a call.” He adds, “God’s individual call is normally in line with the gifts that you already have.”[2]

Pellowe also cautions those who consider ministry and church board service—that if the “mission is not closely tied to your interests, your board service will be a draining experience…”[3]

Steve Macchia believes, “Passion is the fuel that keeps the engine of your vision alive.” He suggests you answer this fill-in-the-blank question: “What energizes me the most is my passionate concern for ____________.”[4] Is church board service and the mission of your church extremely high on your passion list—or did you agree to serve without regard to calling and passion?

Boards must be highly competent in spiritually discerning God’s voice—as individuals and as a board. Who should serve on the board? Who should chair the board? What is God’s agenda? According to David McKenna, “Discernment is a gift of the Holy Spirit that comes with spiritual maturity. It may well be the gift that defines Christ-centered leadership.”[5]

  1. DEPLOYMENT: Spiritual Gifts. The reason Carlos said he didn’t have the spiritual gift of board meetings is because he didn’t! (We know. We know. “Attending board meetings” is not a spiritual gift—but keep reading.) Frankly, Carlos’ inadequate leadership savvy was damaging to the church’s mission.

Not every member of your church is gifted to serve in leadership as a board member. According to Romans 12, 1 Corinthians 12, and Ephesians 4 (and elsewhere), God has given every believer one or more spiritual gifts. Paul encouraged Timothy, “Do not neglect the spiritual gift within you” (1 Timothy 4:14 NASB).

Thriving church boards are astute at deploying the spiritual gifts around the board table—and discerning what gifts are needed. The best boards inspire members to leverage their God-given gifts. The best boards don’t just fill board slots by inserting square pegs in round holes.

While we recommend that the senior pastor not serve as board chair—for many reasons—one reason is that the senior pastor is sometimes not spiritually gifted or temperamentally equipped to serve as the chair. (We recognize that some denominations require that the senior pastor serve as the chair.) For a serious gut check on the crucial role of board chair, read David McKenna’s powerful book (just 119 pages) Call of the Chair: Leading the Board of the Christ-centered Ministry.[6]

  1. COMMITMENT: Faithful and Fruitful. Throughout this book you’ll read dozens of board best practices and expectations. It may be overwhelming to the first-time board member. But don’t quit! 1 Thessalonians 5:24 NIV says, “The one who calls you is faithful, and he will do it.”

Ensure that the position description and expectations for church board members are in writing—and reviewed at least annually. As we suggest in Lesson 6, use an annual affirmation statement and create a holy moment for the board at the first board meeting of the year. Connect the dots between faithfulness and fruitfulness—and review God’s blessing on your church over the past year, at least in part, because of the faithfulness and diligence of your board.

  1. ENJOYMENT: Experience God’s Pleasure. Board service can be immensely enjoyable. Honest! Our friend and colleague, Mike Pate, reminds us frequently that his favorite day of the month is the day there is a board meeting.

When board members leverage their spiritual gifts,[7] their strengths (see the Discover Your CliftonStrengths assessment[8]), and their God-given social styles (analytical, driving, amiable, or expressive)[9], they experience extraordinary fulfillment and joy. That’s God’s plan for us! If board service feels draining and debilitating for you, then consider another area of service “where your deep gladness and the world’s deep hunger meet,” as Frederick Buechner so aptly put it.[10]

“When I run, I feel His pleasure,” said Eric Liddell in Chariots of Fire. Imagine if on the way home from your church board meeting, every (every!) board member exclaimed, “When I engage in our church board’s holy work—I feel God’s pleasure!”

Discernment, deployment, commitment, and enjoyment— reflect on these four Kingdom values as you inspire people to serve on your church board. Those are Church Board Member Hall of Fame values.



Invite people to serve on your church board who have
high passion for your mission and ministry—
and who discern board service as a holy calling. Inspire board members
to leverage their spiritual gifts and strengths—
or their experience will be draining and joyless.

  Board Action Steps:

  1. Discern: What Kingdom values are foundational to your church board’s theology and philosophy of governance?

  2. Deploy: Provide board members with assessment resources to identify spiritual gifts, strengths, and social styles and then leverage the unique giftedness of each board member.

  3. Declare: Raise the bar and create the expectation that all board members will experience God’s pleasure as they serve.



Lord, like Eric Liddell’s testimony,
"I believethat God made me for a purpose,
but He also made me fast,"[11]
show each of our board members their God-given purpose. Amen.



[1] Frederick Buechner is quoted in Crafting a Rule of Life: An Invitation to a Well-Ordered Way by Stephen A. Macchia (Downers Grove, IL: InterVarsity Press, 2012), 54.

[2] John Pellowe, Serving as a Board Member: Practical Guidance for Directors of Christian Ministries (Elmira, ON, Canada: Canadian Council of Christian Charities, 2012), 5.

[3] Ibid., 4.

[4] Macchia, Crafting a Rule of Life, 62.

[5] David L. McKenna, Call of the Chair: Leading the Board of the Christ-centered Ministry (Winchester, VA: ECFAPress, 2017), 71.

[6] Ibid.

[7] Bruce Bugbee, What You Do Best in the Body of Christ: Discover Your Spiritual Gifts, Personal Style, and God-Given Passion, rev. ed., (Grand Rapids, MI: Zondervan, 2005).

[8] Visit https://www.gallupstrengthscenter.com for the Discover Your CliftonStrengths assessment, previously available as StrengthsFinder 2.0 in book form and online. A faith-based resource, recommended by John C. Maxwell, is also available: Living Your Strengths: Discover Your God-Given Talents and Inspire Your Community (Expanded and Updated), by Albert L. Winseman, Donald O. Clifton, and Curt Liesveld (New York, NY: Gallup Press, 2008).

[9] For more on the four social styles, visit https://www.tracomcorp.com/ social-style-training/model or read the faith-based resource, How to Deal With Annoying People: What to Do When You Can’t Avoid Them, by Bob Phillips and Kimberly Alyn (Eugene, OR: Harvest House, 2011).

[10] Frederick Buechner is quoted in Macchia, Crafting a Rule of Life, 54.

[11] Chariots of Fire, directed by Hugh Hudson (1981: United Kingdom: Warner Home Video, 2005), DVD.


From Lessons From the Church Boardroom: 40 Insights for Exceptional Governance, ECFAPress, 2018, www.ECFA.Church/KnowledgeCenter.

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